Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves。使我们对他人感到恼火的东西都可以指引我们更加了解自己。The greatest tragedy of the family is the unlived lives of the parents。一个家庭最大的悲剧是父母未曾经历过的生活。I am not what happened to me。I am what I chose to become。我不是尽力造就了我我，是靠选择成为我。Loneliness does not come from having no people about one，but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself，ore from holding certain views which others find in ed Missa。Bowel孤独不是来自于没有人陪伴，而是不能与自己沟通关于自身看起来重要的事情，或者持有某些他人难以接受的观点。

       Life really does begin at 40 up until then you are just doing research。人生真的是从40岁开始的，在这之前你只不过是在做研究考证罢了。Every form of addiction is bad。No matter whether the narcotic，the alcohol，morphine or idealism。任何形式的成瘾都是不好的，不论这种成瘾品是酒精，吗啡或者理想主义。people will do anything no matter how absurd to avoid facing their own souls。人们会尽一切可能无论多么荒谬来避免面对他们的灵魂。Thinking is difficult，that's why most people judge。思考是困难的，这就是为什么大多数人选择评判。

       Shame is a soul eating emotion。羞愧是一种吞噬灵魂的情绪。you are what you do，not what you say you'll do你的。真实行为才是你，而不是你嘴上说要做的行为。The healthy man does not torture others。Generally，it is the tortured who turned into tortures。健康的人不会蹂躏别人。通常是被蹂躏的人会变成施暴者。midlife is the time to let go of an overdominant ego and to contemplate the deeper significance of human existence。

       中年是放下以自我为中心，并且去思考更深层次全人类生存意义的时候。we are born at a given moment in a given place and like vintage years of wine，we have the qualities of the year and of the season in which we are born。我们出生在一个特定的时刻，一个特定的地方，就像葡萄酒的年份一样，我们拥有我们出生时年份和季节的气质when。an inner situation is not made conscious。It appears outside as fate。当内心的近况没有被意识到，他就外显为命运。Children are educated by what the grownup is and not by his talk。孩子是按照成人的标准被教育，而不是他的言谈。Man cannot stand meaningless life。

       人类无法接受一个无意义的人生where。 your fear is。There is your task你的恐惧所在。就是你的工作任务所在，man needs difficulties。They are necessary for health。人类需要困难，这是身体健康所必须的。Don't hold on to someone who's leaving。Otherwise you won't meet the one who's coming。不要执着于某人的离开，除非你不想遇见那个要来的人。

       The least of things with the meaning is worth more in life than the greatest of things without it。有意义的小事比无意义的大事更有价值。What did you do as a child that made the hours past like minutes？Herein lies the key to your earthly pursuits。你小时候做过什么事情让你觉得几小时过得像几分钟一样，这里面就存在着你人生目标的关键。The greatest and most important problems of life are all fundamentally insoluble。They can never be solved but only outgrown。人生中最大和最重要的问题，从根本上都是无法解决的。这些问题从来不能被解决，只能被过时。Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darkness of other people。

       了解自己的黑暗面是应对别人黑暗面最好的方法。Depression is like a woman in black，if she turns up，don't chew her away，invite her in，offer her a seat，treat her like a guest，and listen to what she wants to say。抑郁就像名黑衣女子，如果他出现了不要赶走他，邀请他进来给个座位，款待客人一样对待他，听他想要说什么。Knowledge rests not upon truth alone but upon error。高手嗯。知识不仅仅是以事实为基石，也是依靠差错的。Every human life contains a potential。If that potential was not fulfil dde，then that life was waste ID。每个人类的生命都包含一个潜能，如果这项潜能不能被发挥，那么这个人生就被浪费掉了。The meeting of two personality cz is like the contact of two chemical substance is if there is any reaction，

       both are transfer mwd。两个人格的相遇，就像两个化学物质的碰撞，如果存在一些反应，两者都要被彻底改变。If a man knows more than others，he becomes lonely。如果一个人比其他人知道更多，他就会很孤独。As any change must begin somewhere，it is the single individual who will undergo it and carry it through。The change must begin with one individual。It might be any one of us。Nobody can afford to look around and to wait for somebody else to do what he is loath to do himself。就像任何改变都必须从某个地方开始，也是靠个人才可以体验并且实施这些变化，改变必须从个人开始，他可能是我们中的任何一个没有人可以环顾周遭去期待有人会去做他自己都不愿意做的事情。